It can be difficult to understand an introvert, especially if you’re on the opposite end of the spectrum. Introverts may seem shy and distant on the outside, but the truth is, there’s a lot going on inside.
If you’re in a relationship with an introvert, here are 10 things you should know:
1. Introverts Long to be Understood
Introverts often feel misunderstood. Even though they don’t wear their heartS on their sleeves, they still have deep thoughts and emotions just like everyone else. Introverts tend to overthink and get lost in their own heads, and they need someone to help bring them back to the surface. If you don’t understand something, don’t be afraid to ask.
2. Introverts Need Quiet Time
Introverts need alone time in order to sort their thoughts and refuel. Respecting this need is an important part of being in a relationship with an introvert. They may even want you to sit with them, and enjoy simple, quiet time together.
3. Introverts Love to Have Fun
Contrary to popular belief, not all introverts would rather be alone than go to a social gathering. Large crowds can be draining after a while, but that doesn’t mean that introverts don’t love to laugh and have fun. Introverts often have a sharp, witty humor that appears when they’re with people they trust.
4. Introverts are Willing to be Vulnerable for Love
For someone that introverts truly care about, they are willing to step out of their comfort zone. They may agree to go to a large social event to make someone else happy, but the next day they’ll most likely need time to recharge.
5. Introverts Value Listening
Introverts think before they speak. If they are sharing something with you, it’s coming from the heart, so they truly value someone who authentically listens. Introverts are good listeners, and they want to have that same respect returned to them.
6. Introverts Only Let the Ones They Love See Their True Selves
If an introvert is open, honest and authentic with you, it’s because he or she truly cares about you, and has decided that you’re worth the risk. Unlocking their hearts leaves them vulnerable, but they are willing to do it for the people they love.
7. Introverts Need Time to Think During a Disagreement
If you get into a disagreement with an introvert, don’t expect it to become heated. Introverts need time to work things out in their heads first. They choose their words wisely and would rather search for resolution than find a more compelling argument.
8. Introverts Fall in Love with Extroverts
Introverts admire extroverts for their ability to charm others. To an introvert, extroverts seem so at ease with strangers. Introverts are often attracted to extroverts, and sometimes this pair makes the perfect couple.
9. Introverts Don’t Mean to Seem Distant
Introverts can come off as distant at first glance, but it’s important to realize that isn’t their intention. They are just thinking and processing, often caught up in their own heads. It’s part of who they are.
10. Introverts Love to Make Others Happy
Introverts know they are different than others, so they don’t expect others to be similar or to enjoy the same things, but they do what they can to make others happy. They sincerely enjoy feeling the positive energy of someone else’s happiness.
Watch the video below for a look into the life of an introvert!